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Most women claim to want the guy who is sensitive, emotionally fluent and intimate. The thing is, while we're constantly on the lookout for that super sweet, caring guy who will make a great companion, we're actually attracted to the guy who ignites passion within us.
Nice guys are just boring. It's a giant catch, isn't it? There's just something so satisfying about taking the jerk home from the bar who's spent most of the night intellectually challenging you in a heated verbal debate. He needs to be brought down a notch. He's absolutely infuriating!
What it all comes down to is biology. As hypothesized, women who placed a lesser emphasis on the importance of sex had fewer sexual partners, were less accepting of men who had many sexual partners and were more likely to choose the nice guy as a dating partner. Girls like to have someone around to whom they can express their feelings, but women are sexual creatures, so when it's time to jump in the sack, we want a guy who is going to lay it down.
This means even though we ladies claim to want serious relationships with good guys, we end up going for the guy who's no good for us. What a tangled web we weave, no? A study from researchers at Hartpury College in Englandof British women, agesfound that even the most seasoned daters still tended to fall for men who expelled narcissistic qualities.
The narcissistic male does not make a good partner, but even experienced females do not realize this. These women even often ended up married to narcissists. Oy vey. The tests are tried and true; women habitually chase these d-bags, despite how many times they have their hearts broken. It's like we just can't help ourselves. We want those arrogant dicks who make us somehow feel alive. We know they're wrong for us, they'll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. Damn you, biology! No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself.
Whether we want to admit it or not, we want excitement in our relationships. We want a powerful, aggressive man. This can be a difficult thing to admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true. Women don't want to be with someone who is all calm seas and clear skies; we crave constant challenges in everything we do.
When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire. The nice guy may seem great on paper, but he turns out bland in real life. Women like to "fix men. He's already solid on the homefront. He isn't intense or severe. As often as we ladies say those chaotic personality traits aren't what we're looking for in a boyfriend, they are. Just look at history. When a woman is faced with a "bad boy," she automatically finds the challenge to tame him alluring. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating.
If she can bring him down to earth, it would be the ultimate accomplishment.
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